Friday, March 10, 2006
the day she blew her top.
Normally, when I get super pissed off with someone in school, it's rare that I actually confront them about it. I'd usually just rant and rant about that person to everyone else and just bear with it for a little while. And it's not as if these incidences have been occuring often anyway.
BUT, i totally lost my cool today. TOTALLY.
as mentioned in my past entry, i was very irritated with my iCee grp leader. and this week only served to worsened that perception.
he wasn't around most of the time during our project meetings, giving lame excuses such as doing his tutorials.. on tuesday he even went back to hall to sleep while the rest of us were doing the report la! on wednesday, he came down.. but he was chatting on MSN and surfing the net.. the entire time. only helped out a bit here and there. but like, no initiative at all to ask what else needed to be done, etc etc.
then yest, still had the CHEEK to tell us.. "ok once you all finish doing the report, send to me ok.. i noticed a few mistakes here and there.. i will do final editing"
*jaw drops*
yeah, now that everything is done, THEN you want to do editing. how convenient.. grr..
so this morning we had to submit the logbook which lists down the hours clocked by each member right.. he conveniently allocated equal hours for all of us. yilin was so angry with him, she totally refused to talk to him. in fact, she even refused to look at him! wahhahaha..
hence i was mediating between the two. we wanted him to change the number of hours, and basically remove his name from all those meetings which he was obviously not present at.
and he accused me of being nitty-gritty! *shock* wahlao.. heart pain leh.. we put in so much more hours than him, and he's still trying to get away with it..
but i din care already, i wanted the whole thing changed.
i was shouting at him in the free access lab la, letting go of everything. telling him how the whole group has been so angry at him all these while..
and instead of saying sorry or feeling guilty or what, this dude still insisted that he had been an "ok" leader.. (he had not.. in fact, i can safely say he has no leadership qualities AT ALL.
WE called for meetings.
WE delegated the work to him.
WE facilitated all the meetings.
WE were the ones who got the discussions going.) and still trying to push for his hours to be increased. saying how, even though he wasn't present, he did do his individual portions.
and i was like "wahlao, everyone else also did their individual portions loh, what makes u so special that we all have to come down and do the report together while you were happily doing your tutorial or sleeping in your hall?"
really couldnt take it anymore. I've never ever shouted at anyone in uni before. but that idiot totally deserved it. i would never want to work with anyone like him ever again. once is more than enough. ergh.
i think the worst part of it all was that he wasn't sorry at all. if he had at least said sorry, i dont think i'd be so pissed off with him.
Posted by missymarsie at 5:54 PM
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